After all the craptalk I wrote and yadayadayada… this is my 100th post!
Thank you, everyone for reading my blog. Thank you. Just thank you.
So, on my 100th post, I've decided to write something "special" here. Not really special.
I was talking to my special someone (gittew uolz!) and he asked me, why does girls keep on saying "all men are the same"?
And to be retardedly honest, that's the one phrase that I really, really hate to hear. I've been on dates with guys, not saying that there's a lot of them, (okay-okay lah upon average kot? LOL) and trust me, ALL OF THEM ARE NOT THE SAME.
Some are too sweet, some of them are trying too hard, some of them can be a pain in the ass cuz they're the hole, while some of them, only God knows wtf they want. Okay, I may give four descriptions but hey, at least they are not the same, ain't it?
Don't let one heartbreak (or maybe two? or three?) ruin your perception towards men. Allah created Adam and Hawa/Eve for a reason. A good friend of mine told me what his ex girlfriend told him, "Kalau betul tulang rusuk aku ni memang daripada kau, percayalah, jauh mana kita ni pun, aku datang balik dekat kau". Kalau lelaki ni semua sama, go check dengan doctor, kau ada tulang rusuk lagi tak?
So, what I'm trying to say, I may not know how your relationship was, but if it doesn't workout, maybe you should start to analyze more about yourself rather than pinpointing your index finger upon others. For instance, MAYBE before you were in a serious relationship with a married guy and the both of you were planning to get married but somehow the wedding was called off cuz his wife knew about it and he chose to be with her instead of you. Consider the part where he had been with the wife long enough and face it, divorce may not be an option especially when they had already have children together. Rather than you say that semua lelaki ni sama je, find a non-married guy as a boyfriend pulak. Will the situation be the same? Heck no! And if this time you guys are planning to get married but he called it off, accept the fact that you're the one that's the same sampai semua lelaki tak sanggup nak spend the rest of their life with you.
sumfink liddat.
boy i got my eyes on you, tell me whatchu wanna do? I can picture you in my room, until you want it. |
Nevertheless, happy 100th post, astrinawrites.blogspot.com! =)
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