Generally, there's that one person that you know, irregardless whether the person is a friend or boy/girlfriend (relationship), there musta be that one person who's plain fucked up in every single thing that s/he say or do. Numsayin?
Being fucked up isn't the worse thing that a person could do to you thou, cuz sometimes it's fun to listen to their whining or watch what they do, well, based from my experience in life, these people are the ones that you can actually count on cuz yknow... They're just plain weird and would understand what you're going thru. Inna way.
Howsoever, it's a different thing from fucking up to becoming an asshole. An asshole, according to the dictionary: a stupid, irritating or contemptible person. Somebody; from my view, you should NOT be friends with from the beginning.
I somehow, strongly believe that God "sent" you these kinda people to you for a reason. A good or bad reason, only He knows. Nevertheless, look at the positive side from it thou.
Not-so-recently, I knew this person "via" a mutual friend. As people say, "don't judge a book by its cover", but knowing the oh-so-picky me, I DO judge a book by its cover, hence the reason why I only take 45mins every month at the bookstore just to get my reading materials (5 to 7 novels on a monthly basis) - DONE!
So, back to my story, I wasn't that keen, eager, pungent or so badly wanting to get to know this person in the first place thou. It's just like the song by Savange Garden, I Knew I Love You Before I Met You, but it's I Knew I Hate You Before I Met You. Not wanting to spill out the name, I'm just going to call the person as "Bloomy". Bloomy will start to have small conversations with me every now and then, in a way, I know that there's something not right, somewhere deep down about Bloomy. Especially when Bloomy talks about...err... For instance, Bloomy said Bloomy has a Rolex but Bloomy's bfriend: Butter, said Bloomy doesn't have a Rolex, but every oh-so-often, Bloomy thinks Bloomy has a Rolex just becuz Bloomy wore it once and considered it as an property of self.
*I hope my example was very much helpful cuz I don't even understand it. LOL.*
I don't eff know what Bloomy wants from me and also in life. Bloomy's too complicated. Fast forward, months later, I found out that Bloomy had been "talking" about me. I wasn't so bothered by it thou, what I was bothered by was the fact that the "talking" was based on false facts, spreading it in a very high confidence level. What's even worse, Bloomy whom so-called-hates-me had plagiarised on my writings and doings. Butter told me that Bloomy had vowed to do all these things.
I told my mom and dad about this and showed them proves on Bloomy's doing. My dad said, "forgive Bloomy, Rina." and continued by my mom, "doa is a good thing and for that, say good words when you recite your doa for Bloomy. Don't doa for the worse to happen to Bloomy as it is like asking Allah to fulfil syaitan's wish and that's not good".
When ever you face this kind of situation, don't regret on knowing these kinda people cuz at some point, Allah has sent them to you for a reason, an indirect lesson; to teach you valuable lesson that is while in the same time, He's actually showering you with good people to be around you. However, this can only happen if and only if you open up your heart to accept the fact.
less than three equals to <3 that brings the same meaning as <♥> where the outcome will be ❤️ that spells out the word l.o.v.e; the people around you. Throwaway the hatred feeling, insyaAllah, everything will be just fine. Aamiin.
I told my mom and dad about this and showed them proves on Bloomy's doing. My dad said, "forgive Bloomy, Rina." and continued by my mom, "doa is a good thing and for that, say good words when you recite your doa for Bloomy. Don't doa for the worse to happen to Bloomy as it is like asking Allah to fulfil syaitan's wish and that's not good".
When ever you face this kind of situation, don't regret on knowing these kinda people cuz at some point, Allah has sent them to you for a reason, an indirect lesson; to teach you valuable lesson that is while in the same time, He's actually showering you with good people to be around you. However, this can only happen if and only if you open up your heart to accept the fact.
less than three equals to <3 that brings the same meaning as <♥> where the outcome will be ❤️ that spells out the word l.o.v.e; the people around you. Throwaway the hatred feeling, insyaAllah, everything will be just fine. Aamiin.
